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Marian M. Kreif, of West Bend passed away peacefully during a prayer on Tuesday, February 10, 2026, at Cornerstone Assisted Living at the age of 79 years.
Marian was born on September 26, 1946, in Hartford, Wisconsin to John and Iremina (nee Linden) Schairer. She married Richard Kreif on January 30, 1965. Together they raised three daughters: Rita, Esther, and Amy.
Marian began her working life as a live-in nanny for the family of Allen and Myrtle Taylor – where Richard later proposed to her. Throughout her life, she worked a variety of jobs, including Enger-Kress for nearly 25 years, Amity Leather Goods, AmericInn and ended her work life at West Bend Insurance. Marian approached every role with dedication and integrity, often forming friendships that lasted a lifetime.
She and Richard made their homes in Campbellsport and West Bend throughout their married life. Marian was the heart of her family, devoting herself to raising their daughters. Beyond her own children, she became a mother‑like figure to many. She was a loyal listener, a thoughtful advice giver, and someone who could light up a room with her laughter—often laughing so deeply that tears would stream down her face.
Marian’s Christian faith was a source of deep comfort throughout her life. She was a member of several churches over the years, most recently West Bend Community Church, where she found friendship and purpose. She actively participated in Ruby’s Pantry and various church groups, giving freely of her time and compassion.
Marian first encountered cancer at age 50, bravely surviving breast cancer and becoming a pillar of support for others facing similar battles. She participated in the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life for many years, raising significant funds for awareness and research. More importantly, she built meaningful personal connections within the community through her advocacy and empathy.
In November 2025, she was diagnosed with Glioblastoma (brain tumor). She faced this with courage and grace. One of her life’s mantras was to “go with the flow,” and she did for the past months. Gracefully accepting her diagnosis and outcome, her new home, and changes that continued to come her way. She never complained, rather was appreciative of all visits and services provided.
Marian is survived by her daughters: Rita Hupfer, Esther (Patrick Popowitz) Kreif, and Amy (Joseph) Grogg; her grandchildren: Spencer (Ashley) Hupfer, Brandon Hupfer, Jeremy Popowitz, Meagan Popowitz, Chloe Grogg, and Kaylee Grogg; as well as great grandchildren. She is further survived by siblings: Ivan Schairer, Virginia Habersetzer, Jacob Schairer, Julia (Gerhardt) Zimdars, John (Kathy) Schairer, and Irma Schairer; along with other relatives and dear friends.
She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Richard; and siblings: Jean, Rose, Robert, and Paul Schairer.
Marian’s wishes were to not have any formal services, which her family has chosen to honor and respect.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Froedtert Hospital, Cornerstone Assisted Living, and Preceptor Hospice for the compassionate care and support provided to Marian.
To honor Marian’s life, please consider performing a random act of kindness to brighten someone’s day – something Marian did naturally and often. Love boldly, smile broadly, laugh loudly, and give generously. Every stranger is a friend in waiting, make a new friend like Marian did often.
“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” — Thomas Campbell
Myrhum – Patten Funeral & Cremation Service has been entrusted with Marian’s arrangements. Additional information and guestbook may be found at www.myrhum-patten.com.
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